Thursday
Mr. Lane’s Kung Fu demonstration.
For me today was by far the best day of the trip. I felt comfortable around the family that I was staying with and for the first time since I left I felt strong connection to my home. The Kang family that I have been staying is an exceptional group of people. Tonight I enjoyed a dinner with Mr. Kang the English teacher at Qufu Experimental, his wife and 8 year old daughter, his brother and sister in law, their child and his mother in law. Everyone came over for a dumpling dinner because I was in town. They asked lots of questions about America but also allowed me to have a glimpse into their life. They enjoy humor and being with each other. They made me feel like I was part of the family and my only wish is that one day they will come to America and I can return the favor.
My day started with a 6:30 walk to go get breakfast with Mr Kang. This followed a warm shower that I now understand was not common during the home stay portion of the trip for most families. Breakfast consisted of tofu (something I have never eaten in my life because I did not think that I liked the taste) and my initial reaction did not change. We then walked to school (18 minutes) and I discussed with Mr. Kang his thesis for post graduate classes at the University and gave him my Mandarin dictionary because I thought it could be helpful to him in his studies. When I arrived at the school I was whisked away to the High School where I met some students and Principal Chen, who is quite the character. His school is very well run and he is an excellent host. After touring the grounds we went back to the Middle School for some lunch and an hour of rest. Most of the group then stayed at school for another hour of rest and a painting competition. I however became the lucky one. My host joined the Snapper’s host in a tour of an area called “Confucius Six Elements Park.” This park was beautiful and included a rifle range (Mrs. Snapper had the best shot of the three of us), a ride, a moving horse and a museum to Confucius.
Following the park I left the Snappers and went to a mountain in the hometown of Mr. Kang with him, his good friend (who was the driver) and his former teacher. The view from the mountain was breathtaking and I later learned that I was standing on the tomb of one of the emperors during the Ming Dynasty. I then had an opportunity to make and eat dumplings with Mr. Kang’s mother in law and finished the night with a Confucius opera.
On another note, I experienced first hand the power of a pen pal today as Bridget connected with her pen pal that she has been writing to over the last year. To see their faces and the pure joy that they experienced when they met for the first time was priceless and worth the trip for me. It is moments like this that make trips so worthwhile and make me proud to be a teacher.